“What do you love?”
You have to be careful with that question. If you aren’t, you’ll provide an emotional response. When we answer emotionally, we often name the things we want to love or believe we are supposed to love.
You’ll say you love your spouse because that’s what you’re supposed to say. Duh.
But reality may tell a different story.
Instead of sitting at dinner with her, you went to the bar with your buddies. Rather than engaging in a meaningful conversation, you lost yourself in the football game.
Is that love?
Love is revealed by what we consistently give ourselves to, the things that receive our time, attention, sacrifice, and obedience.
Consider that football game. There is absolutely nothing that will keep you from watching it. Will you be late? Not a chance. You’ll move every meeting and sideline every other commitment to be there.
Put into the language of Jesus: you obey what you love.
“Those who accept my commandments and obey them are the ones who love me.”
—John 14:21 NLT
Make no mistake: your obedience gets results.
For the sports fan, it produces excitement and energy. There’s adrenaline in the competition, loyalty to the team, endless banter, bountiful statistics, and plenty of nachos.
Jesus promises something too:
“And because they love me, my Father will love them. And I will love them and reveal myself to each of them.”
Jesus will reveal himself to those who love him.
Is that a big enough reward?
Or are you looking for something more?
My mind goes to money first. How will seeing Jesus help me make more money? Will it make me more successful? More influential? Will Jesus reveal himself in a way that helps me accomplish what I already want?
But then, which comes first?
Jesus, reveal yourself to me, and then I will love you.
Or:
Jesus, I love you—now reveal yourself to me.
Perhaps both still make the revelation of Jesus a transaction. I’ll give him something if he gives me what I want.
Jesus offers a better way:
Jesus, I love you. Therefore, I will obey you.
Obedience does not purchase his love. It demonstrates mine.
And somewhere along that road of obedience, Jesus promises that I will see more of him.
The question is not simply, “Do I say that I love Jesus?”
The question is, “Does my life agree?”