Contentment

Today’s Reading : I Kings 10-11; II Chronicles 9; I Timothy 6

I have forgotten to give my background in many stories. The many times that I am re-reading through the Bible,  I have had exposure to these stories several times over in my lifetime. My grandmother was a preacher’s wife. So many of these stories that I am reading in the Bible I have experienced through word, song, and text hundreds of times.  I forget that sometimes this may be the first time many of the readers have access to the stories. 

The passages that we have today actually complement each other so well. The stories in the passage that we recount today are the one with Solomon and the Queen of Sheba, in both Kings and the Chronicles, and Paul’s letter to Timothy.

“But godliness with contentment is great gain, for we brought nothing into the world, and we cannot take anything out of the world. But if we have food and clothing, with these we will be content. But those who desire to be rich fall into temptation, into a snare, into many senseless and harmful desires that plunge people into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evils. It is through this craving that some have wandered away from the faith and pierced themselves with many pangs.”

‭‭1 Timothy‬ ‭6‬:‭6‬-‭10‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Yesterday, after church, I was sitting with my children and recalling “The Big Idea”. It is really interesting how they are able to understand and receive understanding about the Bible and about the different miracles that are happening in the Bible. But one question I asked was “do you know who King Solomon and King David were?“ And to my surprise, they did not know. 

In Kings and the Chronicles, we are given a glimpse into the power and the magnitude of King Solomon and his wealth. We are also given a glimpse into how others can influence us or be detrimental to us. In the first part of both of these passages King Solomon is introduced to the Queen of Sheba. The Queen of Sheba is a well-known and very influential person in the historical biblical setting.  She is also very wise,  similar to that of king Solomon. In both of these accounts, she gives praise to God for the wisdom He has given to Solomon, and for the bounty and the abundance that Solomon has been given.  Then the Queen of Sheba returns to her home and kingdom. 

For many years that I have read this, I assumed that Solomon and Sheba were married, but they were just great friends, and held each other up to a higher standard. These are the people that we need to have in our lives. Ones who are there to acknowledge what we have done, but also to give us support to grow stronger in our faith and in our life.

In each of these passages in Kings and Chronicles, after the Queen of Sheba leaves, Solomon does not find contentment in what he has. 

“Now the weight of gold that came to Solomon in one year was 666 talents of gold, besides that which came from the explorers and from the business of the merchants, and from all the kings of the west and from the governors of the land.”

‭‭1 Kings‬ ‭10‬:‭14‬-‭15‬ ‭ESV‬‬

 

To put this in perspective, a talent of gold was roughly 75lbs,  so approximately 4,950 lbs of gold per year, not including other gold that he received.  This is calculated at $112,988,904 per year.  Solomon reigned for  40 years, which would have been equivalent wealth minimum of $4,519,000,000.  This can easily be calculated to be more than any person before or after accounting for the conversion factors.    

But even with all of the wealth and wisdom of God, Solomon allows others to influence him and to change his heart. His relationship with God decreases as he gives his heart to other gods. How many times have we given our thoughts and energy to other gods(health, goods, status, fame, and time)? 

Being content is not about having things, but having a relationship with God who provides the things that we are in need and some of the desire of our hearts.  Contentment is about the relationship with God.  King David understood this… “The Lord is my shepherd; I shall not want.”

‭‭Psalm‬ ‭23‬:‭1‬ ‭ESV‬‬

 

God wants us to be content. God wants us to have the desires of the heart. But he also wants our relationship with him. Where we continually work on our relationship with him, we will find our contentment. There’s no amount of wealth of wisdom that can replace God’s connection and God‘s relationship with us. We have to renew our relationship with Him daily. It’s not a one and done. It’s a continual commitment even through the highs and lows that we connect with God. When we do that we are truly content.

Training for What Really Matters…The Rope!

Today’s reading is 2 Chronicles 5-7, Psalm 121, 1 Timothy 4.

1 Timothy 4:7-8 reads…

“Have nothing to do with irreverent, silly myths.  Rather train yourself for godliness; for while bodily training is of some value, godliness is of value in every way, as it holds promise for the present life and also for the life to come.”

What is godliness? Dictionary.com states it is “the quality or practice of conforming to the laws and wishes of God, devoutness and moral uprightness.”

An article I read from http://ath.co written on December 16, 2022 said Americans spend $33 billion per year on weight loss programs alone with 45 million people in the US putting themselves on a diet yearly. Another article from http://blog.marketresearch written on August 2, 2021 stated the self-improvement market was over $11.6 billion in 2019 and is expected to be $14 billion in 2025.

There is a saying, “image is everything”…but is it? The Bible tells us the body is a temple in 1 Corinthians 6:19. So, it is wise to take care of our bodies which God created for His glory, but is that the motivation behind most of our workouts and weight loss programs or are we just worried about what other people think about us? And in my opinion, other self-help books, programs, and coaching which does not include God may lead to short term success and results but will eventually lead to emptiness because feeling good and earthly success is fleeting. One day you’re the regional sales leader and the next day your being let go due to down-sizing. This world is a “what have you done for me lately” place. Just ask future hall of famer Chris Paul who led the Phoenix Suns to their 1st NBA Championship appearance in 21 years in 2021 and this past year he averaged a solid 13.9 points, 8.9 assists, and 4.3 rebounds…only to likely be traded this week to the Washington Wizards for the younger Bradley Beal.

The Bible is clear here in 1 Timothy 4:7-8 that training for godliness so we act in a way to please God is much more important than training for our looks or earthly success because it has eternal value. We should only be worried about what God thinks and strive to please him.

Pastor Francis Chan gave a talk I saw once with a rope that seemed to go on forever representing eternity. He had a small black strip of tape around it in one little spot representing our life here on Earth. He illustrated how most all of us spend our time worrying and focusing on the little black piece of tape. What we really should be focused on and in this case training for is the rest of the rope…eternity!

What is one daily habit you can start or improve on to train for godliness and draw you closer to Jesus which is the only thing that really matters in this life and most importantly the next?

Commitment

Is there something in your life that you are committed to? Maybe it is a form of exercise, eating a certain way, doing a daily Bible study, or spending time with a specific person. To be intentional in areas of our life, it takes a certain level of commitment. I will be the first to admit that I am not very good at following through on commitments. When life gets busy and I get tired I can easily talk myself out of following through. But, I also know people in my life that are very determined and committed to things in their life. It is different for each one of us. But, there is one area that we are called to be fully committed.

“And may your hearts be fully committed to the Lord our God, to live by his decrees and obey his commands, as at this time.”
I Kings 8:61

Above all other commitments in our lives, we are to be fully committed to the Lord our God. This was Solomon’s message and prayer for his people as the temple had just been completed and dedicated to God. His prayer was that the people would know God and His commands, and have hearts that were fully committed to Him at all times.

While all the people were gathered and excited about the temple for God it was probably easy to believe that they would always be committed and excited about following the Lord. It is easy to be committed in the beginning or while surrounded by other like minded people. After time passes and people begin to lose their motivation and excitement, the commitment begins to fade.

This might be the same issue we face. Sunday morning Church may get us excited and light a fire in us to share the love of Jesus with others and we are sure that we will follow through during the week. Then, as the days go on we slowly forget what we were so excited about. So, how do we continue to keep that fire and commitment outside of the Church walls? It is only by a consistency of spending time with God. This is done through prayer, reading God’s Word, praise, and spending time with others who have the same commitment to loving God.

When we fully commit to the Lord, follow his decrees and obey his commands we will receive blessings. Even when life gets hard.

“Commit everything you do to the Lord. Trust Him, and he will help you.”
Psalm 37:5

“Commit to Him and he will establish your plans.”
Proverbs 16:3

Bigger, Faster, Stronger

1 Kings 7, 2 Chronicles 4, Psalms 44, 1 Timothy 2

Problems are part of life.  Much of our daily efforts are an attempt to solve our problems.  Take money, for example.  If you are struggling to make ends meet, you may work harder so that you make more money.  But, the additional money and time spent only creates new problems.  This is true for relationships too.  We think we would have more friends if we were funnier, skinnier, or drove a better car.  But, no matter how hard we try, they don’t work.  They never will.  How long will you try before turning to God?

The Psalmist in Psalms 44 takes a minute to remember.  As he does, something special comes to light.  He realizes that there is nothing special about the Israelites.  They were not taller, smarter, prettier, or richer than their neighbors.  In fact, they were not even stronger.  He recalls,

They did not conquer the land with their swords;

it was not their own strong arm that gave them victory.

So what was it?  What made them successful in battle and prosperous in everything they did?  It was the hand of God.  He says it this way,

It was your right hand and strong arm

and the blinding light from your face that helped them,

for you loved them.  Psalms 44:3 (NLT)

I don’t know what problem you are trying to solve or what hurt you are trying to heal, but I do know that there is only one path; Jesus.  I know that he is standing, patiently with his hand extended and asking, “Do you want to be healed?” (Matt 5:6)

Why Turning to God Makes Sense?

The prophet Paul was a bad person.  He was a hateful Jewish follower that persecuted Christians, supported their arrest, enabled their persecution, and ultimately supported their death.  Paul, formerly called Saul, supported the stoning one of the first disciples, Stephen.

Yet Paul came to commit his life to being a Christian prophet and became one of the most prolific authors of the New Testament and led the massive spread of Christianity after the New Covenant.  For newer followers, the New Covenant was God’s promise to save us from our sins through our belief in Jesus after He died on the cross.

Paul suffered great challenges and pain during his life of prophesy of Christ’s doctrine.  In 2 Corinthians 11:24-33, Paul outlines the suffering he endured.  Paul said “From the Jews five times I received forty stripes minus one. Three times I was beaten with rods; once I was stoned; three times I was shipwrecked; a night and a day I have been in the deep; in journeys often, in perils of waters, in perils of robbers, in perils of my own countrymen, in perils of the Gentiles, in perils in the city, in perils in the wilderness, in perils in the sea, in perils among false brethren.”

The most influential and significant prophet of Christianity was persecuted, tortured, threatened, is thought to have maybe been stoned to death in Acts 14 and revived, and yet he still prophesied his love, devotion, and service to Christ.

Pain and suffering builds perseverance.  Perseverance builds strength and resilience.

Paul said in 1 Timothy 1:12-13, “And I thank Christ Jesus our Lord who has enabled me, because He counted me faithful, putting me into the ministry, although I was formerly a blasphemer, a persecutor, and an insolent man; but I obtained mercy because I did it ignorantly and in unbelief.”

Paul turned to God to save his life, not on this earth but for eternity.  Our lives on earth are not always fun.  Blessings don’t always “flow” and happiness does not always find us.  We are sad. We are uncertain.  We are mad. We are broken.  We are addicted. We are scared.  The plethora of emotions in our daily lives is real.

Here is why I choose to trust God in times of trouble and unhappiness.   Pastor Andy Stanley stated in a sermon that “God allowed the worst possible thing to happen to the best possible person.”   Why should I question God’s judgement about when I am unhappy?  God sent His only Son to experience grave and unimaginable suffering as a demonstration to us that if we believe that Jesus died on the cross for our sins, we will live in eternity in Heaven.   How can we expect that the God we believe in doesn’t have meaning or purpose for the challenges that happen to us?

Faith grows through challenge.  Faith grows through sacrifice.  We appreciate the good times more when we have experienced the bad. Paul was a testament to that principle, and we can apply those same lessons to our lives.

The Next Revival

When the concept of praying for a spiritual revival came to me from a fellow believer, I’ll admit my first thoughts were “That’s for other people to pray about”, “Revivals are a thing of the past”, and “The world is too broken for that now”. These were all lies placed in my mind by the enemy who does not want us praying like this.

Several people within my organization have been praying for a spiritual revival at the company in the regions where we lead. Most, if not all of the areas on our list are spiritually dead (or so it seems). We’ve been praying for a while and thanks to God, more people continue to pray with us. Two months ago I posted on this site about the prayer for revival, requesting our readers to pray as well. Thank you to those who have joined!

We pray for “just one” conversion in each region to “start the fire”. Guess what? It is happening. At least three people from one of our plants have given their life to Jesus Christ in the last month!

Today’s reading: 1 Kings 5, 2 Chron 2, 2 Thes 3

Finally, dear brothers and sisters, we ask you to pray for us. Pray that the Lord’s message will spread rapidly and be honored wherever it goes, just as when it came to you. (2 Thessalonians 3:1)

The verse above captivated me. Paul knew and believed in the power of prayer. How seriously do we take it? God freely gives, listens, and responds. He wants us to pray, and yet too often we fail. I can tell you all of the earthly things that I want and think about on an ongoing basis, but can I honestly tell you that I pray earnestly for heavenly things day in, day out, without ceasing?

Paul prayed for the message of Jesus Christ to spread rapidly. We should pray this as well. Nothing in this world is going to get better until we are shaken to repentance, to moral cleansing, to love and live as Jesus did. There have been revivals in the past and God willing, they will happen again. Pray over it, have faith that the same God who initiated past revivals is ready and waiting for us to pray, earnestly, on our knees, humbly to him. I believe he can and will answer this type of prayer.

  1. Create a prayer list on your phone since most of us have smartphones that are with us 24×7. Built-in functions such as reminders can be set up on a recurring basis. Why not create a reminder to review your prayer list?
  2. Most people use electronic calendars. I would be lost without mine. Would I miss a meeting with the person I report to at work? Never! Then why would I miss a meeting with the God of the universe, the one who created me, the one who loves me beyond recognition, the one who has never nor will he ever let me down?

Our big God wants us to pray big prayers. He can handle it! Don’t wait, the time is now.

Under Attack

Song of Solomon 4-6, 2 Thessalonians 1

The church of Thessalonica faced intense persecution.  We know they were frustrated and discouraged, but Paul does not describe how the Thesolonicans were persecuted. It probably looked like ridicule.  People would shout at them with insults and call them names. They were slandered and mocked.  Kind of like today.  I only have to name Planned Parenthood, or LGBTQ, for you to quickly remember that Christians are often targets. What about prayer in schools or the woke movement?  You and I both know that the world calls us not only to tolerate but to accept and even celebrate these divergent points of view.  Our failure to comply has consequences.  Those consequences, my friends, are called persecution.  It feels bad.  It’s easy to get discouraged.

As a leader, Paul knew that the general discouragement of the Thessalonians could be deadly.  He was not about to let that happen, so he wrote this simple letter of encouragement.  His words are as true today as they were then.

Good job! He reminds them.  Your suffering is evidence that God is with you v5.

Don’t worry, you will win, and God will be your relief. v6 – 10.

He will empower you.  This is not going to end soon, so have faith that God is near v11

He will be glorified, and you will be with him. You will prevail. v12

 

Happy Anniversary

Today’s Reading: Song of Solomon 1-3, Psalm 72, 1 Thessalonians 5

Today, my wife Jennifer and I will celebrate our 14th anniversary. (Woot Woot)  As I read our readings for the day, I couldn’t help but pause and reflect on how God connects us and has His perfect timing and reasons for everything under the sun.  When we can believe and trust in reasons for love for others or only for Him.  Some interpretations of this chapter of the Songs of Solomon related it to God’s love for us. What a perfect opportunity to recognize such an amazing gesture of love between two people that only God could orchestrate.

There is beauty in marriage and a grind that we move through as we attempt to navigate this journey on earth between two imperfect people.  Thankfully we have a God through whom we can do all things when we base our love on Him.

This wedding day, love and talk of beauty remind us of all we will experience.  There is also a warning in Songs of Solomon 2:15.

Catch the foxes[e] for us,
the little foxes
that spoil the vineyards,
for our vineyards are in blossom.”

Many commentators will use this verse as a warning as we enter marriage or relationships.  It warns us to watch out for the things that will ruin a marriage o ra relationship.  The metaphor of the fox stands for the minor problems that can eat away at marriage and cause significant issues.  As I remind you on our 14th anniversary and wherever you may be today, remember to keep God at the center of your marriage.  Don’t let the small things eat away at what God has designed to be fruitful.

1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

Patience and Observation

 

Today’s Reading Proverbs 29-31; 1 Thessalonians 4 

It happens almost every day while raising children, especially in the ages of 8 to 14, when you tell them something, they always have something in addition to tell you. Upon first observation this can be seen as a sign of defiance. But when you look at it in a different lens, it can be seen as trying to help them grow their patience. 

I have recently realized and found a new understanding of patience and observation returning to community pharmacy and management.  There are many times you are presented with certain situations that arise and individuals want you to have a quick or rapid response. When you react without thinking it can create an onslaught of frustration and chaos. But in Proverbs, it tells us to have patience, which is not given to everyone. Patience is something that has to be learned and to be cultivated in order to be a better person.

Throughout the 29th chapter of Proverbs, we are shown many different ways of having patience. How to not be quick to react. How to allow God to work for us because the end goal is not for us, but for his glory. How many times do we engage with one another due to lack of patience? How many times are we pushed to certain measures because of lack of patience?

Proverbs 29 2- 20

2 When good people run things, everyone is glad,
    but when the ruler is bad, everyone groans.

4 A leader of good judgment gives stability;
    an exploiting leader leaves a trail of waste.

7 The good-hearted understand what it’s like to be poor;
    the hardhearted haven’t the faintest idea.

8 A gang of cynics can upset a whole city;
    a group of sages can calm everyone down.

9 A sage trying to work things out with a fool
    gets only scorn and sarcasm for his trouble.

    11 A fool lets it all hang out;
        a sage quietly mulls it over.

12 When a leader listens to malicious gossip,
    all the workers get infected with evil.

14 Leadership gains authority and respect
    when the voiceless poor are treated fairly.

15 Wise discipline imparts wisdom;
    spoiled adolescents embarrass their parents.

17 Discipline your children; you’ll be glad you did—
    they’ll turn out delightful to live with.

18 If people can’t see what God is doing,
    they stumble all over themselves;
But when they attend to what he reveals,
    they are most blessed.

19 It takes more than talk to keep workers in line;
    mere words go in one ear and out the other.

20 Observe the people who always talk before they think—
    even simpletons are better off than they are.

In the 30th chapter of Proverbs, we are presented with observations. Observations of nature and observations of others. You can see that in observations, it takes patience to sit and observe certain areas in our life. What is God asking us to have patience and observe this week? What is God wanted us to see that he is preparing for us if we only wait for him?

Proverbs 30: 15-31

Four Insatiables

Three things are never satisfied,
    no, there are four that never say, “That’s enough, thank you!”—

        hell,
        a barren womb,
        a parched land,
        a forest fire.

Four Mysteries

18-19 

Three things amaze me,
    no, four things I’ll never understand—

        how an eagle flies so high in the sky,
        how a snake glides over a rock,
        how a ship navigates the ocean,
        why adolescents act the way they do.

Four Intolerables

21-23 

Three things are too much for even the earth to bear,
    yes, four things shake its foundations—

        when the janitor becomes the boss,
        when a fool gets rich,
      …
        when a “girlfriend” replaces a faithful wife.

Four Small Wonders

24-28 

There are four small creatures,
    wisest of the wise they are—

        ants—frail as they are,
            get plenty of food in for the winter;
        marmots—vulnerable as they are,
            manage to arrange for rock-solid homes;
        locusts—leaderless insects,
            yet they strip the field like an army regiment;
        lizards—easy enough to catch,
            but they sneak past vigilant palace guards.

Four Dignitaries

29-31 

There are three solemn dignitaries,
    four that are impressive in their bearing—

        a lion, king of the beasts, deferring to none;
        a rooster, proud and strutting;
        a billy goat;
        a head of state in stately procession.

In each of the proverbs we find that if we allow God to use us in the time that He has allocated for us, we can grow beyond our situations and become the vessels in which he has planned.  If we decide to pursue things without his consideration we will have different results which may not be fruitful and blessed.  Have a blessed week. 

Wisdom

Today’s reading is Proverbs 24-25, Psalm 41, and 1 Thessalonians 2.

Proverbs 24 speaks much about wisdom and being wise.

What is wisdom?

Dictionary.com states wisdom is “the quality or state of being wise; knowledge of what is true or right coupled with just judgement as to action; sagacity, discernment, or insight.”

Proverbs 24:13-14 reads…

13 My son, eat honey, for it is good,
    and the drippings of the honeycomb are sweet to your taste.

14 Know that wisdom is such to your soul;
    if you find it, there will be a future,
    and your hope will not be cut off.

If the Bible says something is important than it is, and in this case of wisdom, it says we will find future and hope in it. Sounds pretty important to me. So how do we gain it?

My reflection resulted in 3 ways we gain wisdom (not in order of importance).

  1. Experience
  2. Others
  3. God

Let’s start with experience. I believe experience is a function of exposure, not just time. Through our learning from past decisions and situations, we will gain wisdom and make better choices moving forward if we take time to reflect on things as they happen looking back and take time before making future choices.

We can also gain wisdom from others. They may see things in a different way than we do by seeing it from a different angle we have not. We may be too close to the situation to see the big picture from a different perspective. As the saying goes, “we can’t see the forest through the trees” sometimes. I just discussed the importance of experience in gaining wisdom. Through the counsel of others, we not only learn from our experiences, but theirs, too.

Specifically on gaining wisdom from others, Proverbs 24:6 states…

for by wise guidance you can wage your war,
    and in abundance of counselors there is victory.

Last, but definitely not least, we gain wisdom from God. How do we gain wisdom from God?

First, being in His Word through reading the Bible. God speaks to us through His Word by telling us what we need when we need it as we are told in 2 Timothy 3:16-17 and Hebrews 4:12. Ask any regular Bible reader how amazing it is that a devotional they regularly read has verses previously assigned that are exactly what they need to hear when they need to hear it. Is that a coincidence? I’m working through Tim Tebow’s One-Year Devotional: Mission Possible and what was the devotional on as began to write this..wisdom.

We also gain wisdom from God through prayer. It is sometimes said that being in the Word is God talking to us and prayer is us talking to God. And while I believe that to be true, I believe God also speaks to us through prayer. I often come out of prayer with peace and discernment. I commonly leave prayer time with certain things laid on my heart as how to proceed and with peace in those decisions, even if I didn’t hear the audible voice of God.

I could make a strong case that asking for wisdom is the most important thing we should pray for. Many sources say we make 35,000 decisions a day..wow! With that many choices, it seems like it’s pretty important God helps us make the best decisions. Many of us have also heard the A.C.T.S. acronym for how to pray which stands for adoration, confession, thanksgiving, and supplication.  If we pray for wisdom first, this will help us know what should adore God for, what we need to confess to God, what we should thank God for, and what we should ask God for which is His will and not our own.

I pray each one of us reading this will reflect on this as to how we each can grow to gain more wisdom though these 3 ways of experience, others, and God (through His Word and prayer).